The reminder app for staying in touch with friends.
Set your closest people and your rhythm. Daily reminders, message starters, and a place to save plans. Free for your five closest.
- Free for 5 friends
- No account
- No cloud
- One reminder a day
- 30-second setup
Sound familiar?
We’ve all been there. You think about reaching out, but then work, responsibilities, and to-do lists take over. Before you know it, months have passed and that “we should catch up soon” text remains unsent.
We should totally catch up soon!
Yes!! Soon 🙌
8 months later…
…so, how was your summer? 😅
If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Many of us struggle to stay in touch. Not because we don’t care, but because life is demanding.
How it works
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Set Up Your Contacts
Choose the people you want to stay connected with: close friends, family members, old colleagues, or anyone important to you.
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Get Smart, Gentle Reminders
InRealLife.Club gives you subtle, friendly nudges based on your preferences. No annoying notifications, just calm, well-timed suggestions to keep relationships alive.
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Reach Out Without Overthinking
Whether it's a quick text, a call, or planning a coffee meet-up, the app helps you take small actions that strengthen your relationships.
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Build Real-Life Connections
InRealLife.Club is built for just a few seconds in the app. It nudges you, hands you the words, and then gets out of the way, so the time goes to the actual coffee, call, or catch-up you were meaning to have.
What it actually does
One reminder a day. Never more.
It arrives at lunch, one friend at a time, so you actually have a minute. Skip a day and it quietly reschedules. Then it's one tap to call or text.
You set the pace
Daily for your best friend, yearly for your old roommate. Pick a rhythm per person and the app spreads everyone across your calendar so nobody gets lost.
Plans and words, ready to go
Save activities like coffee, game night, or the yearly ski trip, plus conversation starters that prefill your text. "We should do something" becomes an actual plan.
- Birthdays from your contacts
- Siri shortcuts
- SMS, WhatsApp & Telegram
- Backup to your own iCloud
- XP, streaks & levels
What members say
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★★★★★
Went from 'I should text them' to actually texting them.
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★★★★★
Haven't forgotten to call my grandma in months.
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★★★★★
My brother actually noticed I'm keeping in touch.
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★★★★★
Now I never forget the things I want to do with friends.
A note from the founder
For years, I struggled to keep in touch with people. Not because I didn’t care, but because I always had too much on my mind. Five years later, nothing had changed. So I built a little helper.
InRealLife.Club is the app I wish I had years ago. A tool to make staying in touch effortless, natural, and guilt-free.
P.S. If this note just reminded you of someone, text them. That’s the whole idea.
Private. Offline. Yours.
Your data never leaves your phone.
No sign-up
No account, no email, no password. Open the app and start.
No cloud sync
Contacts, streaks, and activities live on your device. Back up to your own iCloud or Files whenever you want.
No ads, no tracking
We don't read your messages or calls. We don't sell anything to anyone. Ever.
Yours to keep
One-tap restore on a new phone. Your friendships aren't locked in our servers.
Frequently Asked Questions
How does InRealLife.Club help friendships?
InRealLife.Club sends you gentle, personalized reminders to reach out to the friends and family you care about. You choose who to stay connected with and how often, and the app nudges you at the right time so no friendship fades.
Is InRealLife.Club free?
Yes. The app is free forever for up to 5 friends. That's the whole app, not a trial. Unlock unlimited friends with PRO (monthly or yearly) whenever you're ready. Download free on the Apple App Store or Google Play Store.
Do I need an account?
No. There is no sign-up, no email, no password. Install the app and you're in. Your contacts and activity stay on your phone.
Does it work with WhatsApp?
Yes. When a reminder fires, you can text your friend via SMS, WhatsApp, or Telegram. Your choice. Customize conversation starters once and the app prefills the message for you.
How is this different from setting phone reminders?
Phone reminders are generic and feel like tasks. InRealLife.Club is purpose-built for relationships. It tracks who you've contacted, suggests the right timing, and keeps things stress-free with a minimal design that gets you off your phone and into real life.
Ready to Stay Connected?
Your friends don’t need a grand gesture. They need you to text back.
Free for your 5 closest. Unlimited with PRO when you’re ready.
Join the club. Stay close. Life is short. Go outside and be IRL.
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